5 Reasons Why You Benefit From Your Strong Reality

May 26, 2008 · Filed Under Motivation, Success Theory 

That sense of strong reality is all you’ve got. The only thing you can control are your thoughts – nothing else. Your thoughts are determined by you, or by your reality. Again, you make the choice. That choice can give you the advantage in life, that many people are not aware of. So choose wisely. :)

1. You become a better seller. If you’re in selling, then the change will be profound. Up to now chances are, that you did what you did expecting to get some kind of positive reaction. That’s no longer necessary. Now you’ve got the strong reality, and you aren’t asking your client for anything. Now he wants to be in your reality, and in your reality there is a product he’s currently missing. The client can react negatively, but if that happens, then he never needed your product anyway.

2. You become better at dating. I bet you’re always trying to impress your date when you’re going out. That’s never going to happen. She is much smarter than you, remember that. You can’t fool her, because on some level you are going to show signals, that don’t match with the person who you’re trying to be. She will notice that, be sure of it. :) So instead of trying to be someone you’re not, be yourself, and be comfortable about it.

3. Personal relationships are much more harmonic. You are not afraid to be who you are. If you were, then you’d hate your relatives/girlfriend/wife for not letting you be who you are. While actually, no one is stopping you. Except yourself that is.

4. You always know where you are going. Most people are doing more than one thing at a time. They are nervous, because they have so much to do, and it never gets done. That’s because they have to think about what other people think of them. As a result they do so many things that cripple them while on their way to their goal.

5. Where you are going is up to you. People will tell you, that you’re now an adult. And as an adult, you have to take care of your responsibilities first, and in what’s left of your time do what you want. That’s bullshit. :) If you’re married, or in a serious relationship, and you want to change, then just do it. Is it better to be less than what you want to be, only to keep some relationship. And besides, nobody said that your spouse won’t approve your change.

Maybe you’re thinking that this way of living is somewhat egocentric. Well, not really. Are leaders egocentric? People follow them, because they see their integrity. And this is the quality, that will breathe a feeling of safety in every person. That’s priceless. Only when you feel safe, you are able to go for what you desire. What you’ve done is to encourage other people to follow their dreams as well. Now is that really that much egocentric? :D

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