5 Wrong Ways To Get To Know Yourself
How do you know who you are? What can tell you that? Is there any way to know for sure? The truth is, there is no way to “find out”. Actually, there is no such thing as “to find out”! And that’s a concept you’ll be better off getting used to.
People have five WRONG ways to know who they are:
- They try to guess what their friends and family think of them
- They make a guess based on their current life situation
- Even more useless – they take into account their belongings and the status of their bank account
- Looking in the mirror and saying – “that’s me” is also a common approach
- Some people don’t even bother looking for evidence and accept any failure as an indication that there is something seriously wrong with them, although they really don’t want to know what it is.
- And my favorite – those who can’t give you a reason why they think in a bad way about themselves, but they do it anyway.
Notice that I said five, and I mentioned six. That’s because the last one is actually the right way to think – only replace bad=good. This is the optimal formula to determine who you are, if you really want to know so much. And if you think this is just confidence without the ability to support it, think again.
I can guarantee you, that if you keep that positive image of yourself, you will soon reach it or you’ll come very close to it. Your reality will always follow your concept of it, so at the very least there is no reason to think poorly of yourself. This is the self-fulfilling prophecy acting in your advantage. That’s if you allow it to!
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